We spend a lot of time asking for more choices. More streaming services, more restaurants, more phone plans, more toothpaste, more coffee orders, more everything. Then we stand in the grocery store staring at thirty-seven different brands of pasta sauce wondering why buying dinner suddenly feels like a decision that requires research. At some point,…
Pumpkin Spice Leaves
Every year around late August, it happens. The weather is still 92 degrees. You’re sweating through your shirt. The trees are as green as they’ve been all summer. Then someone announces pumpkin spice is back. Apparently that’s all it takes. Pumpkin spice has somehow become the unofficial opening ceremony of fall. The funny part is…
Technology needs a break
I love technology. That’s exactly why I think it needs to slow down. Every year there’s another phone, another laptop, another smartwatch, another must-have upgrade. The presentations get bigger, the marketing gets louder, and we’re told this year’s model changes everything. Most of the time, it doesn’t. The improvements have started feeling incremental while the…
Surprise, nobody knows what they’re doing
One of the funniest parts of becoming an adult is realizing nobody hands you the answers. At some point, you just start making decisions and hope they hold up. As a kid, I assumed adults had everything figured out. Teachers, parents, managers, doctors. I thought there was some invisible point where confidence arrived and uncertainty…
We’ve stopped discovering things
I don’t think we discover things as much anymore. We get handed them. A movie because you watched another movie. A song because it sounds like the last song. A restaurant because everyone else is going there. A book because it showed up on your feed. The algorithm has gotten really good at predicting what…